Day 84: Avicii

Last Friday died Avicii, a Swedish DJ I liked. Too much party, too much drinking his body couldn't support him anymore.

Why do we accept so much the culture of drinking, alcohol is very destructive for the body. So here we have one of the best DJs of the world and we supply him with alcohol until he dies - he had said he was shy and used alcohol to supply that aspect - so instead of helping him with his shyness we supply him with something that ultimately has lead to his death. No one helped him with his problems to a satisfactory degree, it was too late for him, it is too late. He leaves behind a great legacy of music nonetheless but he could have done so much more, he was so young, 28.

So here, what we accept and allow in others, in the talents that come to Earth, to finish this way? It is sad to say the least - we should support those that drink too much helping them with the issues that they have on a mind level so that they can let go of their addiction, and not think that because someone is a DJ can live the rockstar life, because the rock star life is no longer viable, consequence catches up fast with the body and then there is death.

So to all the talent in this world, we should not ignore celebrities if they are struggling with addictions and think that it comes together with being a celebrity, there should be more widespread information about how the mind works, how to stop addictions, how to overcome shyness for example, so we don't lose anyone, celebrities or not.

What I am referring to is solutions like the Desteni I Process Pro and Desteni I Process Lite, that have so much helped me stop my own addictions, the Desteni I Process Lite is a free online course that gives you essential life skills = skills with which one will not get lost in alcohol addiction for example, and be able to get out of it if one is addicted. They are comprehensive solutions for ones life, the same we should have been able to offer Avicii, Tim Bergling to help him out before it was too late.

Safe travels Tim, and thank you for your expression in music.

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Day 83: Alone in my Realizations or Not

I have realized that we don't die. I have realized that we have to do what is Best for All. Who will hear me? I don't know, but I will keep sharing about it. Life is like a collective dream that you wake up from once you die, but in this dream you can experience pain and pleasure, and because of that no one should experience  pain as in starvation for example.

We should be able to All have fun here on Earth. But we have to sort out our minds, that sometimes interfere with that. We might think this is impossible but we have to strive to be the best we can be, and for the world to be the best it can be.

I have realized that I have to speak up, regardless of how many are hearing me or  not, with time there will be more.

Be grateful that you are alive, Enjoy Life.

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Ruben

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to have a following.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am alone.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear no one hearing what I say.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear my words will be in vain.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to share unconditionally.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see that it is impossible to have a following right away, and that in the beggining it will be only myself.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to have a following instead of equals walking with me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to have power.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see that I already have power.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear being alone in what I say.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that if I speak the truth it doesn't matter that I am alone.

I commit myself to have patience until others can hear what I say.

I commit myself to live the word compassion, towads myself and others.

I commit myself to share myself and what I realized unconditionally, whatever it is my audience.

Day 82: Dying or Not Dying

It's been about 10 days since I wrote here, during this time I have had to rethink how I want to live and make decisions to change my life, here on I will post more regularly.

Today I want to talk about a dream I had the other night, I was dreaming and suddenly I realized 'Oh, I am dreaming' I was fully aware that I was dreaming, that I was in a dream, and I said to myself 'I have to not abuse' meaning I don't want to murder anyone or do anything nasty in my dream, like I had a principle in my dream. Then I had fun, I was able to fly, to run around, I met people that I know in my dream, of course later on in the day when I met them they did not remember that I met them in the dream because people do not communicate with eachother in dreams, I was able to say to a co-worker that I found in my dream 'If tomorrow you remember what I said to you let me know' but later on in the day when I wake up she did not remember of course.

So I was in my dream and in my physical body I wanted to fart, and I woke up. I was now in this reality, physical reality and had removed myself from the dream.

What I want to tell you with this story is that Life is like a dream, we can communicate with others in this dream that is Life and then we cross over, like with a fart, and we may remember things from our Life. But we have to remember, we are here, we don't have to abuse. I'd say we have to live by a very simple principle that is 'doing what is Best for All' then we will have an experience in this world that is worth while. Because when we die, we don't die, it's like waking up from a dream, a very cool dream where we can fly with planes, experience pain and pleasure be good or bad -- I'd say let's all be good with eachother, let's all play within the context and the principle of that which is Best For All.

I realized this, I am in a place from where I will wake up and be myself still, but I know I will not be able to come back to this reality once I am out of it, once I am farted out of this reality that is it, and this reality will last, and I want to leave behind a reality that is best for All, for the children to come, for me, for everyone.

This is a big opportunity that we all have, we have somehow engineered a collective dream that is reality, where we can suffer or play, let's all play, let's all have fun, let's all live life within the principle of that which is Best For All. I don't care who you have been until now, a coward, someone with courage, a thief, a respectable banker, a sportsman, a creep - all can now decide to and have the opportunity to walk within the principle of that which is Best for All.

All that it takes is some self correction, some self forgiveness to let go of all that we have participated that we are not proud. Osho says, there may be mistakes, things that we did that we are not proud of, but the self is never wrong, self is always right.

Everyone has the chance to wake up in this life, and realize, as Bernard Poolman said, this is your last life, don't mess up with it, don't fuck around for too long because then you will be farted out of this reality and abusers will not be able to participate in further games in this existence. Realize that this life is not a game once children die each day, we have to correct that.

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Ruben Moutinho